Spring Break is among us and I'm enjoying family time.  I pulled an old post from the archives.  It still resonates with me. Maybe it does for you as well.  Have a blessed week.
The music group Casting Crowns has a song entitled 
"Somewhere in the Middle". The very first time I heard the song it 
reached into the very heart of me. Even though it's been quite a while 
since the first time I heard it, the song continues to resonate with me.
 Maybe it's because I still have something to learn. The whole song is 
full of great lyrics. The chorus goes as follows:
 
"Just how close can I get Lord, to my surrender, without losing all control?
 
Fearless warriors in a picket fence,
Reckless abandon wrapped in common sense,
Deep water faith in the shallow end and we're caught in the middle.
With eyes wide open to the differences - the God we want and the God who is. 
But will we trade our dreams for His or are we caught in the middle?"
There's
 a lot of meaning in just a few lines. But for now I want to focus on the 
first sentence. "Just how close can I get, Lord, to my surrender without losing all control?"
 This statement sums up one of my biggest struggles. It's the age old 
battle of surrender versus control. There is a huge part of me that 
desperately wants to give up control of my life over to God. After all, 
His will, His ways, and His plans are far better than mine. 
 
The problem 
is I don't fully know how to surrender - to give up control or even what
 that truly means. I see control as somewhat as a necessity. In my mind 
giving over total control means the possibility of allowing chaos into 
my life. And, unless I learned incorrectly, chaos is the opposite of 
order.
The ironic thing is this - my control has yet to produce an 
orderly life. In the eternal words of Dr. Phil: "How's that working for you?" I have to answer: "Not so much, really!" You'd think I'd learn something. Instead, I'm stuck "Somewhere in the Middle".
I
 want God's participation, His blessings, and His guidance.  But do I want God's participation more than I want 
His leadership? If you were to ask me I'd say of course I want His 
leadership but then there's always a caveat. I still would like to be 
able to have plenty of input.
People who know me know that I'm not 
necessarily good at blindly following. I always have questions and/or 
input. It's not that I won't agree with the direction we're taking - 
it's that I just need to know all the parameters - all the details. I 
like to see the big picture. It calms me to have all the information 
before me. 
I
 spend a lot of time asking God to take the wheel. But the funny thing 
is the trip never goes like I think it's suppose to. It's because I 
don't fully understand God's ways or His methods. And because I don't 
understand - the journey can sometimes seem chaotic and my instincts to 
take control kick in. Here's how I envision my typical stint as 
passenger on my Godly car ride of life: 
"Now,
 where are we going again? I might be more at peace if I knew where we 
were going and what's going to happen along the way. "
"Are
 we going the speed limit? Because it seems like we're going really 
slow. Would it be okay if we went a little faster because I'm kind of 
anxious to get there - whereever "there" is." 
"We're going to do what? Pull over and stay in the desert for a while? Huh? That doesn't sound fun. Did we even bring any water with us? Won't we
 get thirsty? Wait a minute. You're not going to leave me there, are 
you? How about stopping at Disneyland instead? That's kind of where I thought we were headed when I got into the car."
"WOW!
 That looks like a pretty nasty storm up ahead. Shouldn't we turn here? 
We're what?! We're going to go through the storm? Oh, no, no, no! That 
cannot be good."What did that sign say? Paradise!? Up ahead!? We have to go through the storm to get to Paradise? Oh.  I see. There is a plan." (Personal course correction now.) "I knew there was a plan. Really, I did. I trust you. You know what you're doing." (I think Someone just shook His head at me.) "I'm going to close my eyes now...and my mouth. I guess you'll let me know when you want me to do something." 
Maybe
 you can relate. On the good days I'm closer to the surrender side. On 
the bad days I'm closer to the control side. On the average day I'm 
probably "Somewhere in the Middle". The good news is I see the problem 
and am willing to work on it. I don't want to fight God for control of 
any kind. I know it's not Godly or beneficial to me in any way. Like I 
said before - God sees the bigger picture. His ways are best. Yes, there
 may be pain in the journey and undesirable stops along the way but 
Paradise awaits.
Casting Crowns closes their song like this:
"Lord, I feel you in this place and I know you're by my side - loving me even on those days when I'm caught in the middle."